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Prepare for divorce and mediation sessions
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Prepare for divorce and mediation sessions

Mediation is one of the most common ways to resolve a divorce. You should be prepared for this process if it is how you are going to work out the terms of the split. Many couples choose this option because it is often faster than having to go through a trial, and it is usually less expensive.

There isn’t anything easy about going through mediation. You and your ex must sort through a variety of issues, including support payments, child custody and property division. Each should be handled separately. This can be a lot of work that will usually occur over the course of several sessions.

There are several ways that you can get ready for the divorce process.

Mentally prepare

One of the most helpful things that you can do to get ready for these sessions is to mentally prepare. Determine now how you will handle possible contentious matters. Some individuals have to worry about their ex trying to make them angry and doing things just to irritate them. If you think this will happen, your mental resolve could be tested.

Get the paperwork

Paperwork is critical in these negotiations. You need copies of all financial documents and anything else that might have a part in the process. It is better to have more documentation than you will need, so gather as much as you can. Try to organize it. A portable file folder might be helpful if you have a lot to bring with you.

Decide on the issues

Before you go to each session, make a list of what is probably going to be discussed. Jot these down along with your desired outcomes. Don’t include only the ideal outcomes. Instead, make note of which items you are willing to negotiate on. You might not get everything that you want in the divorce, so be sure that you keep your focus only on what you think is truly important.

Don’t rush

During the meetings, you might be asked a question that you aren’t prepared for. Don’t be afraid to say that you need time to think about something. Rushing to make decisions can work against you since you might not pick the option that is best for you. Of course, you do have to use this time wisely since you can’t put off making choices for too long.

No matter what you are facing during the divorce and in mediation, remember that you have to do what is best for you. If you and your ex can’t work out the details through negotiations, you will go to a Minneapolis court for a judge to rule on these matters.